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TA breeze of mildness
A day of beauty
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Children are born with an inner natural
“I am to explore, I gotta learn”
Using whatever possible way to explore just about everything!
Eyes, ears, hands, feet, mouth
General tools for exploring the entire universe
Mind are coded with:” ready, steady, go for it all”
That is from birth
World are so ready to change this
Shaping, forming, molding, remolding……
In times parents feel themselves committed to focus on control the range
and abilities in the eager the child lays into exploring universe
Parents themselves has developed a certain views in how the likes the child
to behave
Not the same as they know HOW to get to the wanted result……that’s for
sure!!
One can say, the more children the better the parent know what to do in to
this
Hmm
I mean, the more they know what is best NOT to do!!
The newborn child are learning by doing, as are the parents
That is how human race are learning
Learning by doing
Parents are not the only factor in the sphere of the child
Family, neighbors……nanny´s
All are they performing the interests that they think suits the child in
the best way
In Denmark we have this system………
Removing the natural urge
to express doubts about the state of things in the child's universe
Once majority made some decisions in what they found best for society……….since
then no one ever tried to ask if those decisions actually were the best for the
child……
Kindergarten – it is here the child will be educated in sitting on a chair,
for learning in school is in mind, training in listen to the adult and obey
what the child is told……mind your behavior kiddo!!
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Then the child has become in an age that is suitable for the next step in
life
School
10 years the child is bound in this facility
It is like the child has entered machinery
“Thump on the top of the head, slapping face two sided, thump on the top or
head, slapping………”
A picture appears in the back of mind
Youngest son were to enter his first year in school over again – classmates
all new
This is the picture that enters this point of time
The difference is huge – almost horrifying
He was sitting, on his chair as told, yes almost like a polite adult person
– and his new classmates buzzing like fleas
The visible effect after a year in the factory called school
Uniform of the masses!
Fit in
Walk as one
Not to stand as an outsider
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10 years later
Get out – please feel maltreated
At this point of time, a certain numbers of scars
At this point of time, a certain degenerating of self esteem
At this point of time, an uncertainness in one degree or another
Neglecting what was meant for the individual has a cost
We are building up a certain inner defense
Walls of learning, one can say
Limitation of one self
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At a mature age I began an education
Would have ended out in a paper permitting one to work in the kindergarten,
I was not to finish this education though…….but
Two of the male gender, the rest of us was girls, young fragile uncertain
girls – ya and me
A huge part of this education were
“To go beyond the inner comfort zone”
Shy girls were to do things ….. One can express it in this way: re-experience
a younger stage than the presence
Dignity were to shrink
Those girls were soon to enter kindergarten, take care for kids, educating these
very kids to……..
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The Mighty YHVH wanted me in another direction; I was not to finish this
education
Today I am working in eldercare, am going by car between the visits, taking
care for the needs of the individual at this specific moment
One morning few of my colleagues were expressing themselves about a certain
course they had recently
They were expressing themselves in a manner that did not hide the disapproving,
maybe the word discomforting is more accurate to use
The issue was experiences just alike at the former education I stopped right
after my first practical period
At this time I admit, I teased the two girls a bit
What they do not know is that the Almighty granted me the favor to remove
all of the walls I had managed to build up in the inner soul that was given
from birth
Today I can begin the advantages this has given me, and I am beginning to
realize what and how I am supposed to use this in the day to come